Life shud be about pleasures... in fact if u look closely, it IS mostly about pleasures.. The choices we make every day, most of them are about pleasure.
We meet people, we keep some we lose some.. Now while we do this very naturally, think about it again & u'll see, the ones whom "WE" really keep, make friends with, are those, whose company gives us pleasure. I mean how many people talk to or make friends with people whom they dont like.
At work, in the family, even amongst a gang of friends.. u'll always prefer the company of the ones whom u can relate to, chat up with or simply hav fun with... Not with some dumbfuck/cow who doesnt seem to know whether he/she is coming or going, but is always ready to give u a complete analysis of how ur life shud be.. u know someone like that. Dont u!!!
I think thats how ur life partner shud be as well. Someone, who u can have the pleasure of conversations, fun of doing things together... like u do with ur best friend... There are some things that u like, n then some that he/she likes. So if u do both, or come up with common stuff.. u cud be having a gala time... even better if with a gang of common friends..
eeew, it sounds like one of those, How will u make ur romantic life more interesting ones in a shitty tabloid... UNLESS u got my point da!
So the point really is... Apart from 9 hrs work/college & a couple of hrs traveling.. eight hours of sleep... YOU r left with about 8 hrs or less to really "LIVE", considering u take a dump, brush ur teeth, take a shower & so on...
So, do the most in this time.. meet interesting people.. make new friends... sit by the beach.. go for concerts/shows.. chat up with mom n dad.. they are also people (i mean most of them are) with wonderful experiences in life.. Talk to ur boss/subordinate like they are real people & not just another part of the mechanism
Simply put… People, think u r here for a party called life where u meet people, spend time with them & walk on.. some walk with u for a longer time than the others...
Just... What if everyone lives with this idea..
Imagine the kind of discussions u can have, the kind of ideas u cud come up with.. If u have people governing countries, who live with this clarity of thought... that we are here (on this planet, in this life) for a limited time with all this power n responsibility to make a difference, create a change for better...
Companies working with the passion that they will give their employees the best... & employees giving their 100% at what they do...
Families who understand its OK for kids to hang around with their friends (not terming them as girls or boys, but as friends), & deal with their kids as individuals & not as a breed responsible for sustaining some age old outdated social structure. Not treating kids as someone who will just live as either a true copy of what their parent’s life was or the way their parents designed it for them... Let them live life as they prefer it, as far as its ethical & responsibly done
Imagine the world would be such a sensible place to live in, people using common sense… WOW!!
Its ok, if u r married & dont want to hav kids, its ur decision & not social pressure… or better off, u dont want to marry at all unless u find the right person.. Men can still go & have a boys night & wifeee darling is having family time with ur parents or better off just catching up with her long lost college friends (not just a girls night a friends night, & yes its OK)
Work is on priority cause u have fun at work with your colleagues while you are seriously working as well (YES!! it is possible) & you are not worried about the boss playing favourites..
So people, if we CUD live like this... lets see how life wud then be..
JUST A THOUGHT... (i know a pretty elaborate one, but i hope it says what i want to say)
P.S… Phew.. now when I read it, its more a CONCEPT than “just a thought…”
Thank you for your time & patience if you managed to reach this far..
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3 comments:
Why did I feel the initial post of the looong speech was directed to someone in particular ? :P
It was a pretty good read .. but one suggestion - important one at that. the whole thing keeps switching from what life should be like to how you want people to live their lives.
Also, i just think u r a lil too stressed about the wedding thing (but don't worry JP might just allow you to have a girls night out post-marriage) :D
-Sid
duh its nothing to do with anyone in particular or will he let me hav a girls nght out post wedding.. its just what i wrote, bcoz i seen off late how closely people live n yes of course what i think the ideal way shud be of course according to me..
So, conclusively you just agreed to what i said (leaving aside the sarcastic uncalled-for remarks) in different words ?!
Blah! Girls still confuse me.
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